Exam Pass Notes

Key Takeaways
- Self-compassion is treating yourself with fairness and kindness when things go wrong.
- It does not mean making excuses, lowering standards or avoiding responsibility.
- The three elements are self-kindness, mindfulness and recognising common humanity.
- Harsh self-talk increases stress, shame and rumination after difficult shifts.
- Compassionate reframing helps learning, recovery and safer practice.
Practical Techniques
- Ask: "What would I say to a respected colleague?"
- Label feelings without judgement: "guilt is here" or "this is sadness".
- Remember common humanity - care work includes struggle and imperfection.
- Replace global self-criticism with a specific, balanced learning statement.
- Use supervision, debriefing and workplace support when needed.
Self-Care Plan Areas
- Physical: rest, food, hydration, movement and pain management.
- Emotional: debriefing, grief support, reflection and kinder self-talk.
- Professional: accurate documentation, targeted training, supervision and escalation.
- Boundaries: notice and address unsustainable overtime, persistent worry or excessive responsibility.

