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Understanding Emotion

• Anger, distress and frustration often arise from fear, delay, pain, confusion, grief or previous problems accessing care.
• Strong emotion does not remove the need for a clear care or administrative outcome.
• Acknowledge the person’s feelings before correcting details or explaining processes.
• Avoid diagnostic or judgemental labels for behaviour.
• Treat emotion, observable behaviour and risk separately when deciding the next steps.

Communication Response

• Use a calm tone, brief acknowledgements and direct questions to clarify needs.
• Identify the current practical need driving the emotion, such as an urgent symptom or appointment issue.
• Avoid trigger phrases like "calm down" or "there is nothing I can do".
• Check records before concluding that repeated contact is unnecessary.
• When appropriate and safe, offer privacy, a short pause or colleague support.

Limits and Risk

• Set clear limits on abusive behaviour while keeping a care pathway open whenever it is safe to do so.
• Describe behaviour specifically - for example: shouting, swearing, threats or discriminatory comments.
• Escalate concerns about self-harm, suicide, immediate danger, safeguarding or severe distress without delay.
• Follow local safety procedures for threats, discrimination and violence.
• Do not manage serious risk on your own; involve appropriate colleagues or emergency services.

Records and Staff Support

• Record what was said, what actions you took, any identified risks and any escalation steps.
• Use factual language rather than labels such as "difficult" or "horrible".
• Report incidents according to local policy.
• Seek support after abusive or distressing contacts.
• Repeated incidents should prompt a review of systems and processes.