Asking about sensitive or private details

Some requests involve information patients may find embarrassing, frightening or unsafe to discuss. Questions about sensitive topics should be asked calmly, with privacy and respect for how much the patient can safely say.
Often you only need a brief outline rather than a full account. If clinicians need more detail, they should collect it through the appropriate route.
Sensitive question habits
- Offer privacy before asking for personal detail.
- Use neutral language and avoid words that convey surprise or judgement.
- Say why a brief outline would help.
- Check whether the patient can be contacted safely, if relevant.
- Arrange interpreters or communication support when needed.
Ask for the minimum useful information, protect dignity and escalate when privacy or safety affects what the patient can say.

